EP. 10: The Importance of Self-Care

We back at it again! We appreciated if you could leave a 5-star rating and review on iTunes or Stitcher. In this episode, Niram and Niambi talk about Prodigy, Bow Wow, Lynching in America and self-care.  Nothing but laughs and real talk! Submit your Black Love Story today — Go to https://blaclovematters.com/lovestory/ to submit your black love story and we’ll shout you out! We really want to showcase the greatness of black love…


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Hello Niram and Niambi,

I have been married for two years. This my first marriage and his second. We have no children… My husband is a wonderful man, that’s why I married him. I have literally no complaints and should be very happy… unfortunately I have never been in love with him. I love him as a person but I am not in love with him. 

Recently I stepped outside of our marriage, he doesn’t know this. The fling shedded light on what I am missing at home. The fact that I don’t love him isn’t his fault, it’s about me. The affair wasn’t his fault, it was about me..

Anyway.. it’s over now and I am here with my husband. He wants to start a family but I am not sure I can do that. He will be a fantastic dad and I’m sure our lives would be happy enough, but there’s no magic. No spark.

The worst of it all, is that I know he truly is in love with me. To end the marriage would destroy him. He has such a kind heart I am devastated to have put him in this position.

But my ultimate question is should I end this relationship?


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  • How do you practice self-care?


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